I’ve always felt that sharing our emotional thoughts on social websites is a very immature act. Not only we expose ourselves under the emo-spotlight for millions others to laugh at, this childish behavior may also, or most likely let others see us worse.
Although being said and understood by almost all internet users, some people still can’t help but keep posting their emo-bullshit on all these social websites available to them. Surely, all they wanted is to get somebody to listen to their complains and share their frustration but wouldn’t it better to chat it face to face with a friend or family member in person? Perhaps it is them they are not happy about, or perhaps they just feel like getting all the attention from as many people as they can grab INCLUDING that particular group of people they are complaining about. The worse part is, they anonymise the actual target audience in their argument and when asked by readers, most will just remain quiet or refuse to talk about it. Oh, the confusion, or maybe a weird trend.
The internet has evolved most of us into a perfect homebody, or ‘otaku’ if you like. We spend most of our time on the internet regardless of being busy or free. Any events involved around us are normally reported to the internet. Be it show-off or just plain sharing, these social websites are used as an medium to spread news of our daily lives. This has indirectly allows friends and strangers from every part of the world to monitor our personal behavior. Some may disagree with this by saying “If users don’t put it up, all these won’t happen right?”. True, but like i said earlier, we have turned ourselves into freaking otakus through internet. When everyone sits in front of the computer all day, how can we resist that temptation from using internet to communicate with the outside world? Or should i say, is there any other place or person we can do this with? Some may say “Girlfriend, family members, friends, counselor.” I ask, “Are they truly your confidant?” Trust me, none of them are. Even if we have a few of them, most of us are less likely to approach them.
Another point to take note. Our reputation is at risk when using social websites. Yes, you guessed it. ‘Employers’. Even if we are being our own boss in the future, we still have ‘Clients’. Our resume nowadays are not the only thing they see during employment. Believe it or not, some employers from the HR look into our social websites to check on our personality. They believe it is from social websites where they can really see our true colors, and not from the long-winded resume + 30 minutes interview. So the next time when we want to vent that childish complain on the internet, think twice.
No doubt, there are also times when i myself couldn’t resist the temptation to use social websites to vent my emotions. Not only i didn’t get the response i wanted, i also realized how pointless it is to dwell around clueless without tackling the actual problem. It gets more frustrating when there is no ‘readily-available’ people to talk with.
Screw it. I’m logging off. Time for some outdoor activities.